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Post by Sarien on Oct 26, 2003 20:03:05 GMT -5
So...*points at title*
But me? I am a tad concieted. Well, I guess we all are to some extent. I'm not all about appearances but it's the first thing I notice about a guy (has to be tall since I'm 5'10"- that's about the minimum). Call me whatever you want, but you guys probably are drawn to looks first. Then it's the personality (which usually makes up for looks or is a turn off). I am a quiet person. Sure, I talk a lot with my friends, but it's different for people I don't know (in person). I'd need to know the guy for a while, as a friend, before I even think about relationships. Ok, back to personality. I'm outgoing (a bit of a contradiction with my quietness) so he has to be the same. Humor is a major plus. I like to laugh. Also, he has to be a good listener and patient. Like it was said before, honesty. I don't like people to lie to me, and definately not a boyfriend (who is a friend and more). Nice. Nice is good. ^__^ Not the boy next door though. I like my men (women) bad ^__~ Though they do have to have plans for their future, that include college, and a nice job. He has to treat me like a goddess, worship the ground I walk on...well, not that much but you get the point. I don't want to be smoothered. I also am a bit ecchi so he has to be able to stand my horrible XXX jokes and comments. Other then good hygene, that's it.
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Post by Mark617 on Oct 26, 2003 20:09:14 GMT -5
well...u pretty much cover all the bases. the only conditiion for looks i have is that the girl isnt ugly. im pretty kind w/ what i consider ugly so that doesnt rule out too many people. im the same way about wanting to know someone for a while first. humor is needed, and since id probaly poke fun at her a lot, shed need to be able to take a joke, or two or three....Besides that being nice would be the only other must
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Post by Dirk the Canary on Oct 26, 2003 20:22:53 GMT -5
im gonna have to agree with the mark on this one, but let me emphasize the humor thing. if she doesnt (or cant, damn thats a scary scenario) laugh, then she's gone. or she at least deserves a stern reprimand.
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Post by flamenco on Oct 26, 2003 20:29:16 GMT -5
for me, its all about the person.....I dont care about looks at all....I mean, I would rather he not weigh over 400 pounds, etc. I like a nice person that isnt a huge creep or doesn't just want to take advantage of me (heh, right there I probably just lost every possible person...I am the biggest pushover, ever...) I like funny, kind people that have simliair interests as me...I dont care about age (well I mean, some people can be too young, I am not liek a sick freak that hits on 12 year olds)....this is gonna sound wierd and mean, but I really dont want a guy thats always depressed and tries to bring me down or tells me crap like "you dont like me at all, I know it" every few seconds....things havent been going too well for me, adn the last thing I need is someone that is suicidal and blames his suicidal tendancies on me. a major major plus is that he likes music and brushes his teeth. also, I dont like it when people try to force their religion on me and dont leave me alone.
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Post by SpongeBob on Oct 26, 2003 21:29:02 GMT -5
Money and shankroids.
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Post by Mark617 on Oct 26, 2003 21:29:34 GMT -5
what the hell does that mean?
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Post by xpPhantomX on Oct 26, 2003 21:32:14 GMT -5
ok spongebob you have no right to even post on this thread.you dont even like girls.so dont be stupid and post stupid things here.and dont waste all of our time to read your stupid posts.
back to the topic:
well i dont know.personality is a big factor.the girl has to be funny,fun, smart,uhh and just a cool person to hang out with. looks are a plus.
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Post by BELETH the Mighty on Oct 26, 2003 22:01:21 GMT -5
Well, personality is frickin’ huge for me. I don’t need her to be exactly like me, in fact the more different, the more exciting it is and the more you can learn from eachother. But I’m looking for the kind of person who is practically like a best friend, but it’s okay to make out with them. Nice, humorous, weird, cute but tomboyish, cool, ya know, the good stuff.
Looks aren’t that important, although I wouldn’t want someone who’s totally ugly. You can love them so much, but it certainly detracts points when it hurts every time to look at someone you plan on spending our life with. I suppose I’m lucky in that I consider most people generally good looking, although I’ve got some pretty strange perceptions. I find Britney Spears and girls of the like to be quite ugly. Empty shells of themselves, all of them! But I’ll go just about anywhere in the looks department. Although I do admit I’ve got a thing for brunette, short-haired with glasses. I dunno, I just think it’s cute. ^_^
Oh yeah, and sex is relatively unimportant. I’d willingly die a virgin if I could find that one girl to make things complete. So sex can screw itself (pun intended).
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Post by scott on Oct 26, 2003 23:10:35 GMT -5
Some that isn't caught up in their looks,someone that is cool,and a Christian.That is about it.
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Post by Mark617 on Oct 26, 2003 23:11:33 GMT -5
someone to narc w/, right scott?
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Post by William on Oct 26, 2003 23:51:23 GMT -5
umm...someone that's nice and relatable, and well...i dunno...i dont exactly look...i just wait...
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Post by Mark617 on Oct 26, 2003 23:55:22 GMT -5
i hope that works better for u than it does for me
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Post by BELETH the Mighty on Oct 27, 2003 19:00:17 GMT -5
Yeah Scott, cuz you know what they say; The couple that NARC’s together, stays together.
Gwahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!
P.S. jus’ kiddin’ ^_-
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Post by scott on Oct 27, 2003 20:12:51 GMT -5
You guys both suck A LOT of ass.
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Post by Wilshire on Oct 29, 2003 21:50:17 GMT -5
I look first at looks, if i was to consider a relationship. I don't care about looks if its friendship. But men are more visually stimulated (no i don't mean it that way, though its partly true) then women. But beyond looks, I have to get to know the person and make sure they're not a weirdo or stupid.
I would look for a pretty girl (not necessarly "hot!") who is nice, fun to be with, funny (but not all of the time), responsible, and who cares about important things like family and education (and if i was looking to marry...God).
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